Don't read into the title too much.
Life has got in the way of the blog and most of you guys know that I am not a frequent, everyday blogger. It's a busy time. Baseball season is now in full swing and my life gets more complicated by the day constantly being on the road and away from the boyfriend for long periods of time.
When I do get to spend a lot of time with Reid I cherish every moment.Our relationship may play out like a fairy tale on here but I do leave out little fights that we have from time to time. those are natural to have over the course of a relationship.
What I do love about him is that he is incredibly level headed. He's caring. He's always there for me when I need him and above all he is loyal.
Something I have noticed a lot in the gay world is that cheating sometimes isn't that big of a deal. It is to me. I only want to be with Reid. We had a talk about threesomes after hanging out with another couple one night.
The other couple, let's call them Gary and Ben, were talking about how they have invited a third guy into their relationship. He's a 21 year old college student... a hot twinky plaything that they can both play with together or separately.
I asked how it worked and they said that they needed some spark in their sex life and could not resist how hot the kid was.
After dinner Reid and I talked about the whole situation and I flatly said that I wanted Reid all to myself. He agreed and didn't really see the need to share me with anyone else. It's just not something we are interested in doing and that's fine. I know a couple that are both "tops" and have been dating for the last 3 years. They have sex with other people and don't have sex with each other. I'm not one to judge someone. I just know what I want and what I like.
Back to Gary and Ben... After that dinner party it turns out that the twinky college boy fell for Ben. Like fell in love with Ben and was disgusted with Gary. He professed this to Ben and asked him to leave Gary. A fight ensued and Gary left. A week later the twink boy moved home and started dating a bartender or DJ and Ben was left with a broken relationship and possibly herpes.