Monday, May 21, 2007

ASK SLUGGER #4


“hey, ive been reading ur blogs,and as an athlete myself how do you deal with locker rooms and showers? thanks man”

I know I have answered this question a few times and even blogged about it so click here and read up!

I haven’t had many great questions sent in. Mostly they are asking me about how I like to shower and if I have banged anyone on my team. LoL

I also wanted to give an update on Joe. We talked on Friday night while I was on my road trip. We both decided that since we were far away from each other and that since he will be trying out to MLL that we would just stay friends, with benefits. One day I hope to be able to be together with him and be in a real relationship but right now it is not possible. I also have a confession that will be posted in a few days.

Thanks again to the guys that e-mail me. I will be getting back to you tonight.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I assume you are circumcised. What % of players on your team are uncut? Have you ever had sex with an uncut guy? Which do you prefer?

newinsac said...

Hey there...I just wanted to tell you I set up my very own blog today because I have enjoyed reading yours and finally decided I would do one myself because you inspired me to:) I promise I won't ask you stupid questions about locker room sex...lol. I went to a fantasy baseball camp this past year that the SF Giants put on and that's the ONE question all my damn gay friends want to know about! Plus it's the number 1 question I get from my str8 friends too...do you check the dudes out when you are in the shower???...lol. Anyway I even gave you a small shout out on my blog so stop by and say hi sometime (http://gayguysports.blogspot.com/). I really respect that you are blogging and look forward to reading more from you. Keith

Anonymous said...

Just read through a number of your blog entries and it has made me totally depressed. That someone like yourself would feel it necessary to dualize your life so that other people will accept you. What a screwed up world. Tragic.

Anonymous said...

Slugger!

I just happened on your blog. You're absolutely right that you have to make your own decisions. Yes, having a major league baseball star come out would be good politically: it would drive home the point that gay people come in all flavors, colors and kinds.

But first you have to decide where you are in your own life. You need to have your support systems in place. (And if Joe turns out to be a long-term support system, all the better. Hurray for you both!)And you have to decide what you want your life to be.

In the meantime, remember that lots of people are in the stands cheering for you: "Go, slugger!"

Tom in USA